What do your clothes say about you? Do they simply supply covering and warmth or something more in the lines of decorating your body type? Though no two persons are alike and preferences abound, forethought should be given to what you wear and how you wear it, as clothes reveal much about us and about our feelings toward others. Before we even say a word, our clothes have said something about us. So why not go beyond the basic function of providing covering and employ some fun into your wardrobe with dressy tops and playful accessories?
When it comes to dressy tops, the variety is endless. For instance, the Indian sari, Japanese kimono, the Hawaiian muumuu and the Middle Eastern aba all cover the body but in totally different ways. That also goes for the German homburg, the French beret, and the Arabic kaffiyah which all cover the male head but all make different fashion statements. And who is to say which is more suitable or comfortable – the Scottish kilt or American slacks?
Whether we like it or not, people judge us and put us into a mental file based on what we wear and how we wear it. Today, more often than not, dressy tops can be used as a means of expressing your lifestyle choice, political views, nationalistic identity and so much more. Even more on a personal level, decisions must be made as to when and where to wear certain clothing items. Obviously a lacy blouse would not be appropriate when farming or gardening but just might work at a cocktail party or business meeting. What we put on when going shopping would not be right for an evening with friends. So care must be exercised in choosing trends which are heavily influenced by lifestyles that we may not subscribe to.
Barbaralee Diamonstein in Vogue magazine admits, ““What once was a concern for quality had become an obsession with the designer label”. Indeed, our wardrobe is no longer simply a matter of function and need and because we are bombarded with advertising that promises beauty, status and popularity, many lean towards dressy tops endorsed with the signatures or emblems of one designer or another.
Resisting these advertising ploys can be done but only by controlling your impulse to buy. Wise advice, especially if on a budget. Dressing beautifully doesn’t have to be so difficult. Steer away from aggressive salespeople and pressure to buy an item that you cannot afford. Dressy tops can be as simple in design and cost as you choose. You can even make your own if you have the time and skill.
Remember, style, as the dictionary puts it, is the WAY in which something is done rather than the thing itself. In dressy tops, it’s the overall presentation of fit, taste and quality that says far more than endlessly pursuing the latest in fashion and design.